Self Love : Its Importance And The Positive Changes Associated With It

Self Love : Its Importance And The Positive Changes Associated With It

Self Love : Its Importance And The Positive Changes Associated With It

What is Self-love?

Self-love is unapologetically accepting yourself, your worth, your feelings, your beliefs, and yes being kind and loving without any harsh expectations.

I think in today’s era, the most underestimated and underrated love is self-love. Everybody wants other people to love them and accept them. They want pampering and serenity from the outside.

But you guys should remember, charity always begins at home, likewise, love radiates from the inner self.

Let’s take an example to understand this better:

Whenever you are with your loved ones, they always want kindness and lots of love from you. You are always standing there with your arms wide open for your closed ones because you want to see them joyous. Slowly and steadily, unaware of anything, you transform yourself for others to keep them satisfied.

Likewise, when you begin to extend your arms for yourself, you’ll be happy with yourself, you start accepting yourself, you become satisfied with yourself. Your love for yourself changes your views, your thoughts, and your actions.

When you observe yourself closely, you find an extraordinary person covered under insecurity, low self-esteem, and constantly complaining to itself. You will find that your own happy place, and what’s astonishing about it is that it was always there, within yourself, but you never tried to discover it before. It's a kind of expedition to find yourself, know your worth, and much more.

Self-love has the ability to transform you, your negativities into positivities, it leads you to better directions and helps you to identify your true worth, and your hidden untapped potential.

How to practice self-love?

Self-love is not a piece of cake my dear friends, it is a practice, it is a routine, and once you start taking care of it, it will become your nature. The more you dwell it, the more you will realize how effective it is!

Here are a few key points you need to follow and keep in mind:

• Practice gratitude 
• Stop comparing yourself to others
• Stop self-sabotaging
• Get rid of the illusion of perfectionism
• Get to know your tinniest problems
• Get to know what makes you more eclectic and chuffed
• Be patient with yourself 
• Don’t seek validation every-time from others
• Invest in yourself
• Spend some time alone once in a day
• It's okay not to be a part of the crowd
• Believe in yourself 
• Appreciate little things you have in your life
• Don’t underestimate your potential 
• Tell yourself to calm down during stressful phase
• Tell yourself that you can do anything you want to
• You are eternal

Unless you love yourself, nobody is going to love you. Invest in self-love and embrace yourself, the rewards are plenty.

- Neeraj Sharma

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